{"id":359,"date":"2008-05-22T23:59:04","date_gmt":"2008-05-23T04:59:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/?p=359"},"modified":"2008-05-23T01:02:53","modified_gmt":"2008-05-23T06:02:53","slug":"to-naggravate-is-so-unshamu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/?p=359","title":{"rendered":"To naggravate is so unshamu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>DEFINITION:<\/strong> <em>v.<\/em> To unintentionally encourage bad behavior by responding to it in a manner that incites even worse behavior. <em>n.<\/em> A response designed to stop bad behavior, which paradoxically produces more of it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/jimage400\/alpha.gif\" alt=\"Honey, you just ran a red light!\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>VERBOTICISMS:<\/strong> <em>(Invented words created by the Verbotomy Writers)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Naggravate<\/strong>:  \/<em>-NAG-ruh-veyt-<\/em>\/ Matt was normally an aggressive driver \u00e2\u20ac\u201d he practiced &#8216;offensive driving&#8217; rather than &#8216;defensive driving&#8217; \u00e2\u20ac\u201d and when his passengers complained it would only naggravate the situation.  Unfortunately, Matt&#8217;s girlfriend, Mona, still hadn&#8217;t learned this, and their roadtrips would turn into white-knuckled rollercoaster rides of reckless driving and near accidents, which only grew worse as Mona&#8217;s screams intensified.   <em>Etymology:<\/em>  Nag &#8211; to annoy by persistent faultfinding, complaints, or demands (from Old Norse, gnaga &#8220;to complain&#8221;) + Aggravate &#8211; to make worse or more severe; intensify; irritate (from Latin, aggrav\u00c4\u0081re &#8220;to burden&#8221;) <em>Created by:<\/em> Tigger.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>Comments on Naggravate:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/verbotomist.php?user=TJayzz\">TJayzz<\/a><\/strong>, <em>2008-05-20: 11:28:00<\/em> <br \/>Good word!!<\/p>\n<p><strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/verbotomist.php?user=galwaywegian\">galwaywegian<\/a><\/strong>, <em>2008-05-20: 10:28:00<\/em> <br \/>good word. love Mona.<\/p>\n<p><strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/verbotomist.php?user=Nosila\">Nosila<\/a><\/strong>, <em>2008-05-20: 22:40:00<\/em> <br \/>Was her name Mona Lott? Good Word<\/p>\n<p><strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/verbotomist.php?user=Tigger\">Tigger<\/a><\/strong>, <em>2008-05-21: 00:30:00<\/em> <br \/>Yes, it was!  Do you know her too?  <\/p>\n<p><strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/verbotomist.php?user=OZZIEBOB\">OZZIEBOB<\/a><\/strong>, <em>2008-05-22: 01:20:00<\/em> <br \/>Good word<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Wrecktify<\/strong>:  \/<em>rek tifff eye<\/em>\/ Herhigh pitched complaints only managed to wrectify the situation, as she put her foot on the imaginery brake. <em>Etymology:<\/em>  rectify wreck.<br \/>\n <em>Created by:<\/em> galwaywegian.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>Comments on Wrecktify:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/verbotomist.php?user=Nosila\">Nosila<\/a><\/strong>, <em>2008-05-20: 22:37:00<\/em> <br \/>wreckscellent word!<\/p>\n<p><strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/verbotomist.php?user=OZZIEBOB\">OZZIEBOB<\/a><\/strong>, <em>2008-05-22: 01:21:00<\/em> <br \/>Nice word.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Misscipline<\/strong>:  \/<em>miss-i-plin<\/em>\/ Missipline is the result of misplaced discipline. <em>Etymology:<\/em>  discipline + miss <em>Created by:<\/em> bookowl.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dissuascalation<\/strong>:  \/<em>dis-sway-sca-lay-shun<\/em>\/ Bobby, just ignore your brother. You know that when you tell him not to swear he just tells you to f&#038;*$ #$%&#038;&#038;% )!!@^&#038;$$. I know you mean well, but it&#8217;s just a dissuascalation. <em>Etymology:<\/em>  dissuasion (discouragement) + escalation (increase, especially in the case of military escalation where every action is responded to with greater force) <em>Created by:<\/em> petaj.<\/p>\n<p>To see more verboticisms for this definition go to:<br \/> <br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/verboticisms.php?jid=alpha\">https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/verboticisms.php?jid=alpha<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Be Creative, <\/p>\n<p>James<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\">www.verbotomy.com<\/a><br \/>\nthe create-a-word game<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>Definition Comments:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/verbotomist.php?user=Verbotomy\">Verbotomy<\/a><\/strong> &#8211; <em>2008-05-20: 00:00:01<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Today&#8217;s definition is inspired by Amy Sutherland&#8217;s observation that if we are going to use &#8220;progressive animal training techniques&#8221; on humans, that we simply need to reward behavior we want and ignore behavior we don&#8217;t. Of course this is easier said than done, and requires a great deal of self-awareness and self-discipline. In fact, Amy calls it the &#8220;Zen of Animal Training&#8221;. See: <a href=\"\/blog\/?p=352\"> &#8220;What Shamu Taught me About Life, Love and Marriage&#8221;<\/a>. Thanks Amy! ~ James<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DEFINITION: v. To unintentionally encourage bad behavior by responding to it in a manner that incites even worse behavior. n. A response designed to stop bad behavior, which paradoxically produces more of it. VERBOTICISMS: (Invented words created by the Verbotomy Writers) Naggravate: \/-NAG-ruh-veyt-\/ Matt was normally an aggressive driver \u00e2\u20ac\u201d he practiced &#8216;offensive driving&#8217; rather &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/?p=359\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">To naggravate is so unshamu<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[51,90,93,52,89,53],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=359"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=359"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=359"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.verbotomy.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=359"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}